An 18+ Discord dating server where people are verified

Dating apps are full of bots and catfish. On LUST every verified member has shown a staff member their ID and two live selfies, so the person you flirt with is the person in the pictures.

By the LUST staff teamUpdated

In short

LUST is a free 18+ Discord server for adults who want to meet, flirt, sext and date. Post a profile on the board for your gender, chat in verified-only channels and voice rooms, and use DM roles to control who can message you.

Why date on a Discord server

  • Verified people. 4,293 members have passed a manual ID and live selfie check.
  • Conversation first. You see how someone talks in general chat, confessions and voice before you ever DM them.
  • Big and active. 472,904 members, with 7,500+ people chatting every month.
  • Free. No swipes to buy, no paywalled likes.

Profile boards for every group

Verified members post a short profile (what you are looking for, where you are, a picture if you like) on the board for their group: female, male, couple or other profiles. Browse the boards, reply to profiles you like, and move to DMs when you both want to.

Ways to meet people

  • General chat and #ask-to-dm, where people say hi and look for someone to talk to
  • 12 voice channels, including verified-only rooms, Movie Night and private rooms you create in one click
  • Anonymous confessions with anonymous replies, a good way to break the ice
  • Selfies and flash channels where verified members show themselves
  • Games: marry someone in the server economy, battle pets together or team up for heists

DM etiquette that is actually enforced

Every member can wear a Closed DM or Ask To DM role. The rules say to check it before messaging and to stop the moment someone asks. Unwanted DMs, spam pings and harassment are reported through tickets, and staff remove people who ignore the rules.

Your next match might already be online.

Join LUST on Discord

FAQ

Is there a Discord server for dating?

Yes. LUST is an 18+ Discord community with 472,904 members where adults meet, flirt and date: profile boards per gender, verified-only chat and voice, and DM etiquette roles that keep contact respectful.

Are the people on LUST real?

Everyone with access to the verified channels has passed a manual age verification with an ID selfie and two live gesture selfies, which also stops catfish accounts. 4,293 members are verified so far.

Can couples join LUST?

Yes. Couples pick the Couple role when they verify and get their own NSFW, tease and profile channels.

How do I avoid unwanted DMs?

Pick the Closed DM or Ask To DM role. Members must check it before messaging, and harassment in DMs gets people removed.